Blues and greys

shitphan:

when u start lusting over someone but then realise you actually have a really big crush on them 

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Apr 7
narcotic:

netscapeme:

bl-ossomed:

yikes:


Teddy Roosevelt’s diary entry from the day his wife died. He never spoke of her death again.

i reblog this every time its on my dash

this is so sad

:(

love is scary
it can break you just as fast as it made you

And on Valentine’s Day as well :(
Jan 5

narcotic:

netscapeme:

bl-ossomed:

yikes:

Teddy Roosevelt’s diary entry from the day his wife died. He never spoke of her death again.

i reblog this every time its on my dash

this is so sad

:(

love is scary

it can break you just as fast as it made you

And on Valentine’s Day as well :(

(Source: threeoverten, via y0ur-eyes-are-swall0wing-me)

Made the inevitable, horrific, mistake of reading old text messages from her. I should delete them. I know. I know i’m weak. 

Jan 4

I’m getting pretty sick of this “The Friendzone is not a real thing” crap that is all over Tumblr at the moment. 

First of of all, it’s not an anti-feminist stance. Women can find themselves “in the zone” just as men can. Admittedly it’s usually a guy falling for a girl, but can we please not make this into a gender issue.

You are not anti-women if you feel like you have been Friendzoned, and don’t let anyone try and make YOU feel like a bad person if you express your sadness at being there. 

People need to stop getting so defensive over it. Quite frankly, until you’ve been there, you really don’t understand it. But fine, feel free to comment, but please don’t belittle how bad it can make someone feel. You lose a best friend and someone you’re crazy about all in one go.

Can you imagine how devastating that is?

Obviously some people take it too far. Blaming the other party is usually totally out of order. The other party has usually done nothing more than be a good friend to you and you develop strong feelings towards them despite knowing it will end up going nowhere. 

I’m not even going to comment about the cases where someone deliberately leads someone on and then dumps them in “the zone”. I’m sure it happens, i’ve heard enough people tell me that it happened to them, but can;t speak from first hand experience.

Guys have a hard enough time expressing their true feeling in person. No, when they go online and say something they get a bashing for being anti-women. So they keep quiet, suffer in silence.

Oh look, suicide rates amongst young men are at an all time high. Wonder how that happened?

Basically, if some uses the phrase Friendzone, unless you know the specifics of the case, you really shouldn’t comment.  

If someone is being offensive, calling a woman a bitch for not reciprocating feelings, then yes… that guy is a dickhead and you can call him out on it. Hell, i’ll call him out on it before anyone else gets a chance. 

Just for the record, i’m fully supportive of feminist issues.

Thanks for your time. 

Dec 29
The Friend Zone IS A REAL THING

Everyone is doing their Christmas Party thing this week. They’re getting drunk, fooling around and having fun. 

I wish i could join them.

Every time i try and go to a party i end up thinking about who i’m not going with.

What if she’s there? What if i see her? What if she has loads of friends and other guys around her and i walk in alone… and leave alone?

2014 will be better… i said the same thing about 2013 and 2012 and i was wrong. 

Dec 18
Christmas blues
Dec 17
best hug ever
Dec 14

best hug ever

Sep 22

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Sep 21

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Aug 31

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